Release shame and guilt surrounding sex. You are worthy of pleasure.
First, a snippet from my novel Naked with a Guru.
Tristan placed two fingers inside of Natasha, and two fingers in the middle of her forehead (third eye). Suddenly, a surge of electric energy came shooting from his fingers. A line of blue electricity was created therefore connecting her third eye to her sacral charka (sex chakra). She screamed out loudly in pleasure. Natasha felt orange energy begin to form in her sacral chakra. The energy built and built until it finally exploded which sent her body shaking. She couldn’t control her body any longer; the orange ecstasy had taken her. She felt as if something had been released from within. Natasha felt as if her sacral chakra once blocked had been finally freed.
Her body was heavy, and she laid on the couch motionless with her eyes closed.
“What the hell just happened?” she questioned. She tapped into the energy of her body and noticed the flow of her energy surrounding the sacral chakra and lower abdomen had increased. Natasha never thought that she was energetically blocked, but maybe she had been. (An energetic blockage can be described as a black ball of energy interrupting the natural flow of life force energy.) Her lower abdomen felt light, and energetic, almost as if an imaginary weight had been lifted. The space where the small black blockage had been was replaced with a feeling of flowing soothing energy. Eyes still closed, Natasha touched her lower abdomen and smiled. She was wild. She was aroused. She was free.
A sacral or sexual blockage may be one of the hardest obstacles to overcome. Many times like Natasha, you will not be aware that it even exists within your body. This blockage usually represents shame, guilt, or trauma surrounding sex. It inhibits you from being open, spontaneous, or passionate. This sexual shame reduces intimacy during sex which can make it mechanical and impersonal.
There is a natural flow of energy that courses through the body, and when a person orgasms, the flow increases towards the sacral chakra. Now if there is a blockage in your sacral, imagine how much of the natural energy is being obstructed. Some women have never experienced an orgasm before. Some men lose their erections and are unable to perform. The sexual shame we host is directly related to the pleasure we cannot feel.
Sexual magic is powerful, and it can heal and carry you and your partner to wondrous places. In order to feel its full medicine, you have to be willing to surrender fully to it. You have to lose judgments on yourself and others, and break the paradigms that you may have grown up with.
Often, many do not have a Sexual Energy Guru to work with like Tristan, but there are techniques that will jump start you on your way to becoming sexually liberated. The first step is increasing awareness, ask yourself the following questions. Do you feel shameful or guilty about sex, and if so why? Why does it make you feel uncomfortable? Why are you holding back from feeling the pleasure you are worthy of? What is the blockage inside of you that is inhibiting your freedom? What sexual paradigms did you grow up with, and how are those affecting your sex life?
Summer is here, bringing with it hot sex and romance. Give yourself permission to be open to it, give yourself permission to enjoy it, and stay tuned for more delicious enlightenment.
Relationship Coach, and Master Healer of the Mind, Body, and Spirit.